Holy Cow! New products galore!

Have you seen the new Pure Romance products I've been Tweeting about all day?!  There are some seriously awesome new products, scents and flavors!!  I've put a few pictures up on my Facebook page at http://www.facebook.com/prbypam if you're anxious to see what's new until I can get it all together to post here. The pics I put there are screenshots from while I was watching the announcements on Ustream today, so I'm just waiting on on the official list of items with details and prices. They will begin shipping them to us on April 11th so I'll be showing them at my parties after that date :)

Spring 2011 Pure Romance Products Being Discontinued

It's that time of year again - spring cleaning of some of our products to make room for the new coming in April!

Be sure you contact me or order on my website at http://www.pamloveland.pureromance.com/ if there is a favorite item of yorus being discontinued before we are out of current stock!

■  Body Dew (Pomegranate) - New Scents Coming Soon!

■  Beginners Bondage Fantasy

■  Between the Sheets (all scents) - New Scents Coming Soon!

■  BFF

■  BILL

■  Body Bling (all flavors) - This Product is Receiving a Makeover!

■  Buzz - This Product is Receiving a Makeover!

■  Call of Booty

■  Candy Kisses Trio

■  Coochy 4oz and 8oz (Pomegranate) - New Scents Coming Soon!

■  Entice (all scents) - This Product is Receiving a Makeover!

■  Great Head Variety Pack - This Product is Receiving a Makeover!

■  Humbelieveable

■  Jelly Tool Belt - This Product is Receiving a Makeover!

■  Love Doctor

■  Perfect 10 Wireless Bullet

■  Rosebud

■  Sex Sling

■  Triple Tease

■  Whipped Variety Pack - This Product is Receiving a Makeover!

■  Wild at Heart

■  Wonder Bullet

Discontinued Pure Romance Products

It's that time of the year when it's out with the old and in with the new! All of these items are being discontinued, so if you love any of these, you'll want to order them ASAP before they run out of their current stock! (Check out the items that say they are receiving makeovers...that means there will be new, better versions of those very soon!)

Discontinued Items
The following items will be discontinued once the current stock has been depleted:

AURA MINI SET
BETWEEN THE SHEETS - PEAR BLOSSOM - NEW SCENT COMING SOON
BETWEEN THE SHEETS - VANILLA - NEW SCENT COMING SOON
CRAZY EIGHT
DECADENT INDULGENCE
EAGER BEAVER
G MONEY (GLOW) - RECEIVING A MAKEOVER
HUMDINGER
LAVENDAR LOVER
LICKY LICIOUS
MR. DEPENDABLE - RECEIVING A MAKEOVER
NEW G WIZ - RECEIVING A MAKEOVER
PR MASSAGE OIL CANDLE
PUMP IT UP
SENSATIONS MINI SET
TONGUE OF FUN
TRIPLE TEASER
WIRELESS REMOTE BULLET (PINK)
WP FINGER TONGUE

Even More New Pure Romance Products!

Pure Romance wasn't done bringing us new products just in time for Valentines! Check out these great items! I love the Chocolate and Tie Me Up Tape especially!

Visit my website to see the rest of the items just out at http://www.pureromancebypam.net

Patty Brisben: Intimacy vs. Sex

I LOVE this post from Patty. The question I hear most often at parties is how to get your libido back. In my opinion, it's not an issue of libido but an issue of intimacy. Like Patty says, you become almost like business partners if you don't make time to reconnect. For women, that connection creates desire.

http://www.vibrantnation.com/our-blog-circle/pure-romance-between-the-sheets/intimacy-vs-sex/

Want to know what you get at a Pure Romance party?

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HUGE raise from Pure Romance!

WOW!!! We just got a huge raise! You can start at a 50% discount now, instead of 35%, by buying the larger kit OR buy a smaller kit for just $149 and move up to a 50% discount with just ONE recruit! I am at 40% now with 10 team members, so that's a huge jump even for me when one more person joins my team!

YOU CAN BE AT 50% WITH JUST ONE PERSON ON YOUR TEAM!

http://www.pureromancebypam.net/Flyers/StimulusPackage.pdf

Call me ASAP to find out more!

Pam Loveland, www.pureromancebypam.net

919-949-5208

Pure Romance in the New York Times!

Pure Romance in the New York Times!
http://www.nytimes.com/2009/06/28/fashion/28generationb.html

"The researchers attribute the widespread use to easier availability and a cultural shift away from the bad ol’ boy, Triple-X-rated sex toy industry. Vibrators are now sold at Wal-Mart, 7-Eleven and CVS"

Pure Romance Parties are much more fun (and private!) than buying your toys at Wal-Mart! ;) Call me to book a party or get help selecting a high-quality product!

http://www.pureromancebypam.net

Direct Sales Jobs Like Pure Romance are Recession Proof

USA Today just did an article talking about how direct sales jobs are helping many people through difficult times. (http://www.usatoday.com/money/industries/retail/2009-05-13-direct-sales-jobs-recession-unemployment_N.htm) I can personally attest to that fact. I began doing Pure Romance to help out with our own family's finances because I was tired of worrying about every little thing that came up unexpectedly. When you have kids, things WILL come up. We had just bought a home because we'd also just had a new baby 9 months before and we desparately needed more room. We also have two teenagers, one of whom needed braces and the other was almost driving at that time. Pure Romance has saved us on more than one occassion from being in a real financial bind. And the best thing is that no matter what happens with the economy or my full-time job, I have Pure Romance as my net.

So why Pure Romance versus the other companies out there? Here are my personal reasons:

1. I believe in the products. I could not possibly encourage someone to buy a product that I did not believe was a quality product. And a lot of people don't realize what high quality beauty products we sell, not just bedroom accessories. I absolutely love our line of massage and moisturizing products. And the products are more budget-friendly than a lot of other brands.

2. I believe in the company. I don't know how many people can work in this industry and say that they've personally met and casually visited with the owner and founder of their business. Not only that, but that they completely respect them and what they've built. Patty Brisben, her family, the people working in the corporate office, my fellow consultants - it's like a second family. It is unlike anything I've experienced in the corporate world.

3. I love how Pure Romance is about educating and empowering women. Don't get me wrong, we do a fun, classy party - but when that party is over, did you learn anything? Did you get at least one thing from it that will help you know yourself better and/or your partner better? We joke around a lot at parties, play games and do a great deal of laughing, but we also do a lot of teaching both during the party and privately afterwards.

There are a number of stores out there where you can buy adult products, yes, but they can be embarrassing and overwhelming. Having them brought to your home and their benefits and how to use them explained to you in a comfortable atmosphere goes a long way towards reaching out to women who may never have considered going into a store.

There isn't any make-up, cooking tool or bowl that is going to help a marriage. There are a hundred stores I can buy some version of those products in too - sometimes even cheaper online. What we offer is unique and the way we do it is what sets us apart from others like us.

Tools for Improving Your Sexual Health: Information about Bedroom Accessories

Tools for Improving Your Sexual Health:
Information about Bedroom Accessories
©2008 Pure Romance Inc. 161 Commerce Blvd. Loveland, OH 45140 1-866-Romance http://www.pureromance.com/

What is a bedroom accessory?
A bedroom accessory is a vibrator or dildo that provides stimulation to various areas of a woman’s body, including the clitoris, the vagina, the g-spot, and the anus. They are used to increase sexual pleasure, as well as aid in a woman’s sexual health by allowing her to explore her body.

Who should use a bedroom accessory?
Any woman who is interested in increasing her sexual pleasure or experimenting with new forms of stimulation can use a bedroom accessory. Sometimes, a woman’s health care provider will suggest that she use a bedroom accessory to help her meet her sexual health needs.

How do you use a bedroom accessory?
A bedroom accessory is used to stimulate the clitoris, vagina, g-spot, and/or the anus by providing pleasurable sensations. How a bedroom accessory is used will depend on the area of the body that it was designed to stimulate.

Not all types of stimulation are right for all women. It is important that women explore their bodies and determine what type of stimulation is best for them. Exploration should continue
throughout a woman’s life, because pleasures can change over time and as women age.

Pure Romance has created a full line of bedroom accessories for women. Please visit our Web
site, or talk to your Pure Romance Consultant, to find the right product for you.

Why some women struggle with orgasms.

75% of men and only 29% of women always have orgasms with their partner. There are many reasons that women have trouble reaching orgasms, with stress and anxiety being at the top of that list. Not just life stress, but actually worrying about whether or not they are going to reach orgasm can keep you from having one!

Believe it or not, having an orgasm can take practice. (Ah, darn, right?) It’s not something that someone can simply say, “Do this and it will absolutely happen.” While there are some tips that we can give one another about what works for us, it’s an entirely individual feeling and path to getting there. People vary so widely in what gives them sexual pleasure that there is no ‘normal’ or ‘right’ way to do things. If you think so, you are sadly limiting your experiences.
There’s only one way to explore what feels good to you - simply by doing it! Take some time either alone or with your partner and experiment with all the areas of your body. Try a vibrator and place it in different areas of your genital region to experience the different sensations you get. The clitoris has legs - 3 inches on either side of your vaginal opening - basically like a wrap-around porch! For some women, the exposed area of the clitoris just above her urethra opening is too sensitive to stimulate directly so placing a steady vibration to the side of it or on the ‘legs’ can be more comfortable.

For some women, the strong feelings that can accompany the onset of an orgasm can be overwhelming. The ‘loss of control’ can cause them to be anxious and lose the feelings. Try to remember to relax and enjoy the moment. Experimenting alone can help you feel more comfortable with letting yourself go without having to worry about a partner’s reaction or whether you’re ‘getting there fast enough’. Sometimes we feel pressured to ‘hurry up’ as he is doing his best to prolong his own orgasm. This much thinking going on is never a good thing during sex :) Orgasms definitely are an excellent end result, but getting there is half the fun! Being in the moment is the best way to actually get the result you want.
There are certainly ways to help things along a little as well. As I mentioned earlier, using a vibrator is the most common means of adding that steady sensation that is often necessary for many of us. The great thing about vibrators are there are so many different kinds and speeds. Clitoral vibes are just that…used strictly for clitoral stimulation either alone or with a partner. You hold it in your hand and place it in those spots you found that you liked that we talked about or for extra fun, let your partner find the spots with you! It’s very erotic to give someone pleasure and watch them while you do so. There are also G-spot vibes and dual action vibrators. Dual action are those that have a shaft as well as a clitoral vibrator and G-spot is of course for the G-spot.

Now the G-spot is a whole other thing that I’ll talk more about later. I hear all the time at parties that women want to find their G-spots and have a G-spot orgasm. It’s become so talked about that women are now feeling pressure to have these supposedly bigger, better orgasms! First of all, if you’re reading this and already having any trouble having a clitoral orgasm, don’t jump into the deep end of the pool just yet. The G-spot is, in my opinion, highly overrated. I don’t say this because it’s my personal experience, I say this because what the heck is wrong with the clitoral orgasm?! Also, for some women, stimulating the G-spot is NOT pleasurable and for some, the orgasm they finally may get from it is not that different or necessarily better than any others they’ve had. Again, everyone is entirely different….in a BIG way. But, while it certainly should be on the map of points of exploration, don’t make it the Holy Grail. I will talk more about finding your G-spot in a later post, though. (I promise not to take so long to write again!)

Another fantastic bedroom ‘accessory’ are heighteners. I talked about these before in my libido post, but they truly can change the whole game! You know how you might see a bowl of vanilla ice cream and you think, “Mmm…that looks good.” Then someone adds cookie dough to it and syrup and whipped cream and….well you get the idea. It’s a whole other dessert now, right? That’s what heighteners do. Suddenly that ice cream is irresistable! And you don’t want just one scoop…you want two and three, maybe even four scoups!

I got a little carried away there…but I really am fond of my Xscream ;-) We carry a book called ‘Tickle Her Fancy’ that is an excellent resource for women to learn more about herself, how her body works, about using toys for the first time, how to introduce them to the bedroom and more. And of course I am always happy to speak with you about any questions you have and make recommendations. Email me at pamloveland@pureromance.com or call/text 919-949-5208.

How to Choose a Vibrator or Other Bedroom Toy

With all of the products out there, how does someone decide on what kind of 'bedroom accessory' to buy? Of course, Pure Romance Consultants are more than glad to help any time! I've also added a document to my website at www.pureromancebypam.com (on the home page and in links) that has some information to help get you started thinking about what you and/or your partner might like. Included are questions to ask yourself about what you want, product differences, myths, the mind/body connection for sexual satisfaction and caring for your toys. I hope you will find it helpful!

Pam
www.pureromancebypam.com

What are your Memorial Day Weekend plans?

Have you made plans yet for Memorial Weekend?? With gas prices getting so high I know a lot of us will be sticking closer to home. Those beach trips are becoming a little less frequent unfortunately. But it's not a total loss! Come to the N & N Sports Bar and Grill in Smithfield at 4:00 on May 24th! I will be doing a Pure Romance party in the private banquet room for the ladies and the gentlemen...well you can wait outside and have a drink :-) Just don't forget to give the checkbook to your better half so she won't come out empty-handed!

I hope to see you there!!

~ Pam Loveland
www.PureRomanceByPam.com

HUGE SALE!!! BOGO!

I am having a HUGE Sale that I've extended from one day only through this weekend for those of us who get paid on Friday :) Hey, why not make it a Valentine's Weekend, not just Valentine's Day, right?? But you have to sign up for my email newsletter to get the information. So go to my web site, http://www.pureromancebypam.com/, sign up, then shoot me an email at pamloveland@pureromance.com so that I know you've signed up and I can forward the flyer to you. That's it! You SO want to get this info!

Ask Patty Article: Timid Around Toys

Dear Patty,

I recently got married, but I have a problem.... I am afraid to try new things, like a vibrator. Do you have any suggestions for me?

Thank you!
Timid Around Toys



Dear Timid Around Toys,

You have done the most difficult thing regarding your fear of trying something new… you asked for help! Great job! My first recommendation is to start slowly. Don’t try to pull out the big guns on the first try. You may find that you aren’t ready for it and quit trying all together!

My favorite thing to suggest for a beginner is the Super Deluxe Love Mitten, the Romantica Lotion with the Shake and Shimmy vibrator inside the massage mitt for an enhanced body massage. This is a great way for a couple to introduce a bedroom toy into a relationship in a comfortable fashion. Use the vibrator inside the mitt for all your back and body massages. When you are more comfortable with the Shake and Shimmy, slowly try massaging new areas of you or your partner’s body! You will find the fun of vibrators in no time and will be ready for an upgrade.

When you are ready, there are many different options to help you spice things up. This includes everything from lingerie, verbal expressions, crèmes and lubricants, toys, to strictly your attitude. But, you need to do a bit of research on all of your options before you make a decision.

And to be honest, www.pamloveland.pureromance.com is the perfect place to discover new things both for your relationship, but more importantly yourself. Just remember, you have to be comfortable with new experiences by yourself before you can introduce them to your partner. If you are still hesitant on using a bedroom accessory on yourself for sexual pleasure rather than just massage, try reading a wonderful book called Tickle Your Fancy. This book will take you through some really great information about masturbation to detailed information about the different kinds of bedroom toys available and how to use them. Once you have had a chance to look through this book you will be able to slowly try new things by yourself and eventually work your way to introducing them into the bedroom.

Best of luck!

Truly, Patty