Redbook's "10 Sex Tools Every Woman Needs"

Valentine's is upon us and the pressure is on to have a romantic evening. For some women, the prospect that they are going to be expected to be intimate with their partners is not necessarily something to look forward to. Sad, but true. If that is the case, women I encourage you to ask yourself why not? What is making intimacy a chore rather than a pleasure. Granted, there are going to be times when you're just not into it. So many things can affect our libido, being tired, kids driving you nuts, a bad day at work (although sex might be just the answer for that bad day!) but if you find yourself saying 'no' much more often than 'yes', perhaps it's time for you and your partner to discuss why.

Redbook's article is fabulous for giving you some ideas of things you might do to add the fun back into the bedroom. I really like #10, though. (Surprised I didn't say #2 was my favorite - a vibrator? While I'm all in favor of adding toys to your bedroom repertoire, it's more important to get things right with your partner first if there is an issue there.) #10 talks about honesty. Even if it's something smaller like you're feeling a little less attractive than usual because you haven't been eating well and you feel 'puffy'. Or something more serious, like you're hurt that he doesn't hold hands with you or spend romantic time other than when sex is involved. It's important to discuss what's going on in your mind. He might be imagining that you don't find him attractive anymore (yes, guys think that way too) or that he's not been satisfying you. You know how everyone can be - we make up reasons for what is going on that are often much worse than the reality. So talk!

One of the best things I've ever heard is that women want to have sex when they feel loved and men feel loved when they are given sex. That can be a problem! So find that emotional intimacy, then the physical will follow. (Men: Pay attention there!) Start with honesty - then add the vibrator :)

http://www.redbookmag.com/love-sex/advice/10-sex-tools

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Buying your Sex Toys at Walmart?

More and more we are hearing about how sex toys are becoming more mainstreams, vibrators in particular. As in my blog yesterday, even the New York Times discussed in a recent article how the combination of toys being both more acceptable and more widely available is changing public perception. Women of all ages are becoming more knowledgable about themselves and how our bodies work. This education helps both them and their partners know better how to find that pleasure that we're all looking for.

LiveScience also posted and article just yesterday saying that half of all Americans use vibrators. And why not, I say? There are studies linking a healthy sex life with people having less stress, more intimate relationships and as the article points out, possibly even better health! ("In fact, female vibrator users were significantly more likely to have had a gynecological exam during the past year and to have performed genital self-examination during the previous month.")

Now I am not saying that you can't have a perfectly amazing sex life without the use of vibrators. Of course you can! BUT, like chocolate syrup on ice cream (as well as whipped topping, nuts and a cherry!), sometimes it's nice to change things a bit. And, sometimes it's even necessary. As we learn more about the body and mind, we are finding out just how different men and women's arousal and orgasms are. What's easily achieved by one person, may not be for another. That doesn't make one person more 'normal' than another any more than the fact that I struggle with dieting and my aunt struggles with trying to GAIN weight.

So whether you're trying to add a little spice to the bedroom or just explore how things can feel differently with arousal creams, toys and other bedroom accessories, Pure Romance is a great way to do that. Can you imagine asking the teenage kid in Walmart what a good choice for a vibrator might be? What about lubes...is this one more slippery or will this one for someone more sensitive? Women can get their girlfriends together to play games, sample edible products, and view all the different types of toys with a professional, educated consultant. It's a fun, comfortable way to just see what all the buzz is about ;)

Pure Romance in the New York Times!

Pure Romance in the New York Times!
http://www.nytimes.com/2009/06/28/fashion/28generationb.html

"The researchers attribute the widespread use to easier availability and a cultural shift away from the bad ol’ boy, Triple-X-rated sex toy industry. Vibrators are now sold at Wal-Mart, 7-Eleven and CVS"

Pure Romance Parties are much more fun (and private!) than buying your toys at Wal-Mart! ;) Call me to book a party or get help selecting a high-quality product!

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Sales, Upcoming Trip and New Products, Be a Pure Romance Consultant for Free and the G-Spot!

In just a few short weeks I will be leaving for a long weekend in Cincinnati, Ohio. Pure Romance’s annual training is always a big event for us consultants. We are given the opportunity to mingle and learn from the masters then bring it all back home to you. That means fresh games, fun demonstrations and best of all…NEW products! Some of our popular products are getting overhauled to make them even better, like B.O.B.!

Saturday dates are going super fast already! I have just September 6th, September 27th, October 11th and October 18th as open Saturdays through the end of October! There are still some Friday dates left, including THIS Friday and Thursday’s are GREAT days to do parties. Turnouts on Thursdays are often higher than weekend dates. It’s just before the weekend so no one minds staying up a little past bedtime and you’re not disrupting any weekend family plans. August 7th, 21st and 28th are the next open Thursdays coming up. Don’t forget - Monday - Thursday parties get you 50% MORE in FREE PRODUCTS! Hostess credits go from 10% to 15% for those dates!

Please let me know if you would like your email address given to Aradia fitness for their email list. They are the erotic/pole dance exercise studio in Cary. They draw once-a-month from that list for a free teaser class. This month two of my customers got free classes for hosting parties with over $500 in retail sales and another got one from that drawing! I will not share your email address unless you specifically tell me to do so. This is their website: http://aradiafitness.com/franchises/raleigh-durham/httpdocs/

Become a Pure Romance Consultant for Free!

Recently I learned of an idea for ladies to raise the money to help them purchase their new consultant kits. I am so excited about this because I know that it’s a Catch-22 for many of us - we know we can make good money doing parties on our own time, but how do you get the money to get started? Please don’t let that stop you. I already had a way to help you before I learned of this new one, but this is even better and easier, I promise. Please contact me if you are at all interested in knowing more. Often women are interested but have a lot of questions about the business holding them back, like:

• How do you get people who want to do parties?


• I am not sure I can talk in front of people, how do you do that?


• How do you learn about the sexual questions and products?


• What kind of money can you make?


• Do you have to carry all that stock to parties? (no!)


• What does your husband and kids think about you doing that?


• What happens if I don’t like it?




I started selling Pure Romance over a year ago and I’m so glad that I did with the way the economy is going right now. It’s helped my family out of a crunch many times and I have so much fun doing it. I never would’ve thought someone who hated talking in front of people could ever do this, but I really love it. I would be happy to mentor you.





They released the new kit sale early! You can still purchase the $99 starter kit through July 31st, but starting today, all other kits are on sale early for 75% off, or more, through the end of August! Remember, if this is still a bit much for you, I can help you with ideas on how to purchase your kit. You can make great money in this business and these products always sale. Men and women both love Pure Romance!



Kit Specials: July 28th - August 31st (Early Release!)
Huge Markdowns on Our 3 Best Selling Kits!

Choose From 4 Discounted Starter Kit Options:
$99 STARTER KIT (Ends 11:59PM July 31st)
$250 BRONZE KIT On Sale For $125 - Valued over $500
$500 SILVER KIT On Sale For $250 - Valued over $1000
$1000 GOLD KIT On Sale For $500 - Valued over $2200


Interesting Link

This is one of the most informative articles I’ve seen about what the G-Spot is, where it is, does everyone have one, and everything else I hear most often at parties about G-Spots. It really does seem to be the sexual Holy Grail for a lot of us. I would add that I really believe you need to not worry about it too much and just enjoy yourself (I haven’t heard any woman complain that she’s tired of those darn clitoral orgasms - those are pretty rockin’ too!) but education is always a good thing. So here it is:

The Quest for the Holy Grail - The G-Spot
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