Sexuality as Women Age

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One of the things that I love the most when I do a party is when I have women there who are the the mom or grandmother of the hostess or another guest.  These women generally are quietly sitting there, flipping through a catalog.  The whole vibe coming from them is entirely different then the younger party guests in their 20's who loudly laughing and blushing at the items on display.  The mix of young and middle-aged women guarantee it's going to be an interesting night!

An article in Times titled "The Science of Cougar Sex: Why Older Women Lust" discusses a study on whether evolution pushes women to become more sexual as they reach their early 30's and 40's.  A psychologist from the University of Texas by the name of David Buss claims that it's because women's fertility begins to decline as menopause approaches, so we naturally begin wanting more and more sex in order to procreate before it's too late.  I'm not a doctor, psychologist or anything even close to either of those, however, I am a woman who also gets the opportunity to talk with other women about their sex lives and I'd like to offer my own thoughts as to why this might be if it is, in fact, true.

I think that as we get older, women become more comfortable with their sexuality.  When we're younger, we're more likely to be less experienced with our own bodies so not only don't know what we like, but aren't brave enough to tell our partner what we want even if we did know.  Now add to that how things are changing in the world in regards to sexuality in general.  I remember as a teenager when TLC sang, "Let's Talk About Sex" and it shocked us that they would play that on the radio.  We blasted it from our cars and felt rebellious.  Sex wasn't everywhere you looked and listened as much as it is now, and we certainly didn't have sex toy parties in our homes.  The information that is now available to us is abundant.  We're learning it's normal to not be 'normal', and it's more socially acceptable to be a sexual person as a woman.  We've finally given ourselves permission to enjoy all physical pleasure has to offer.

Those women at the parties quietly sitting there reading their catalogs...by the end of the show, they are shocking the younger girls.  They are playing the games, asking the questions that no one else is brave enough to ask, giving their own tips on giving a better BJ, all with an un-embarrassed, un-apologetic attitude.  So the next time you see that older woman at the grocery store with her business clothes, or her weekend casual sweats, don't underestimate what might be underneath. It's as the saying goes, a lady in public, a freak in the bedroom.

Holy Cow! New products galore!

Have you seen the new Pure Romance products I've been Tweeting about all day?!  There are some seriously awesome new products, scents and flavors!!  I've put a few pictures up on my Facebook page at http://www.facebook.com/prbypam if you're anxious to see what's new until I can get it all together to post here. The pics I put there are screenshots from while I was watching the announcements on Ustream today, so I'm just waiting on on the official list of items with details and prices. They will begin shipping them to us on April 11th so I'll be showing them at my parties after that date :)

Spring 2011 Pure Romance Products Being Discontinued

It's that time of year again - spring cleaning of some of our products to make room for the new coming in April!

Be sure you contact me or order on my website at http://www.pamloveland.pureromance.com/ if there is a favorite item of yorus being discontinued before we are out of current stock!

■  Body Dew (Pomegranate) - New Scents Coming Soon!

■  Beginners Bondage Fantasy

■  Between the Sheets (all scents) - New Scents Coming Soon!

■  BFF

■  BILL

■  Body Bling (all flavors) - This Product is Receiving a Makeover!

■  Buzz - This Product is Receiving a Makeover!

■  Call of Booty

■  Candy Kisses Trio

■  Coochy 4oz and 8oz (Pomegranate) - New Scents Coming Soon!

■  Entice (all scents) - This Product is Receiving a Makeover!

■  Great Head Variety Pack - This Product is Receiving a Makeover!

■  Humbelieveable

■  Jelly Tool Belt - This Product is Receiving a Makeover!

■  Love Doctor

■  Perfect 10 Wireless Bullet

■  Rosebud

■  Sex Sling

■  Triple Tease

■  Whipped Variety Pack - This Product is Receiving a Makeover!

■  Wild at Heart

■  Wonder Bullet

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Is sex relationship duct tape?

So I just read this article a couple of days ago, "Sex can fix it!" In March's Redbook mag (I was going to link it, but it isn't up on their site yet..check later or go grab a copy.) The point was that sex can help fix a number of issues, from feeling fat to fighting. Now I am a firm believer in the importance of sex for the relationship and know that it makes me feel sexier, but it is hard sometimes to get out of you're funk to want to, well, you get it.

So hubby and I had definitely been in a funk for a few days, snapping at each other and giving the stink eye. I also was feeling pretty pissy about my exercise and dieting hard work not showing the results I had hoped for fast enough. But I read the article while taking a bath and trying to relax, so decided that despite not really feeling like making up yet, I would put the moves on hubby. (Don't ask what those moves are because they are very lame.)

Needless to say, he was surprised and pleased. And guess what, we were snuggly and laughing the next day! And to top it off, it did one of the other things the article mentioned...revived my sagging libido. And bonus...he bought me this exercise gadget I had been really wanting but couldn't bring myself to buy because it is a little pricey. Who knew?! That really works! 11 years of not using the power on him, wasted. Haha! Just kidding, he is a great guy who does nice things like that for me all the time, but that just confirms that he deserves getting it more. Chicken or the egg, right?

Just try it out sometime. Sex is the only thing you share with you're partner and no one else (well, usually I suppose, but that gets complicated.) It creates a bond that connects you and buffers the outside world, including the kids.

* Disclaimer: Maybe I should have said 'good sex' throughout this. If you're not having good sex, contact me so we can fix that!

Demo of the Pure Romance Door Swing

If you haven't heard, Pure Romance has a new door swing! It's a great option for both someone who has always wanted the sex swing but didn't want to spend as much or install the hook in their ceiling, and the person who wants something that is easily portable - like taking it to a hot weekend date to use in the hotel.

Here is me showing how it looks and how you can use it.

Contact me if you'd like more info or would like to order. Those who mention that they saw it on my blog will get 10% off!

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